Hey Queens & Kings!
Yesterday I held my second live Q&A via Facebook Live on my official page, Miss T.N. King (please like/follow if you haven't already). Man, this was an exciting show full of great questions, comments & debate! I know some of you weren't able to tune in live so below is the link to the video along with the questions I answered during the recording. Special thanks to those who submitted a question and those who shared their perspective/remarks via live comments. You made this show so exciting & I can't wait for do another Q&A later this month (date TBD).
If you would like for me to answer your question during my next show, please submit your questions to firstname.lastname@example.org. Your identity will be kept anonymous.
Click here to watch the video.
1. I am almost 30 and I just recently broke up with a guy that I had been dating for 6 months. Logically, I know the breakup was for the best (for both of us). However, I'm having a hard time preventing my mind from dwelling on all the good times, dwelling on the communication issues which I recognize wasn't all him, wondering what if I had done this or if he had done that would things be different, etc...
I keep trying to tell myself that things work out exactly how they are supposed to and that if effort was being made from both sides we would still be together but my mind seems to be stuck in this loop. How do I make it stop? How do I move on?
2. Hello beautiful been following you for a while now I discovered you maybe like 2 years ago? I read your blog post the new side chick and It was so amazing because I truly felt as if you was describing my life . I've always found myself giving my all to people thinking that's what I'm suppose to do. Then feeling defeated when the man I put in so much work to mold runs off with the next chick lol but my question is what are considered wifely duties ?Only thing I know for fact is I'm not suppose to have sex with a man who I'm not married to but besides all of that what am i not suppose to do for a man in only in a relationship with . I always see the meme post about "don't give wifely benefits to just a boyfriend but besides not having sex idk what else I shouldn't be doing as just a girlfriend
So my questions are basically: What is are considered wifely duties (other than sex)? What are some things we women do for our boyfriends that could cross over into wife territory?
3. I don't have the best relationship with my mother in law. She's said sly remarks about me and my family on multiple occasions. How should I handle it without causing issues in my relationship?
4. Hello Miss King. Thank you so much for your continuous advise. This is my situation. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year now. Wen I met him last year he had a job though he was not earning much. I was just about to graduate so I had no job myself. I asked for money once but he didn't send it but I thought it was too early in the relationship. He lost his job after knowing him for about two three months. He has hustled since October 2015 till now and I have been there for him financially till today. Am using my connections to get him a good job and higher chances are that he will get this job. He tells me he loves me. I have met his friends. He tells me everything. These hard times have made us stronger as a couple because his family has not really been there for him. It has been me all the way. He never uses our pictures as profile pictures and he says that does not mean love and when I tag him in posts on Facebook which suggest we are a couple he doesn't untag himself. We talk family and marriage staff when we stabilize but he is not as vigorous about these things as I am. I initiate most things. Could it be because of stress that he will be fine after he stabilizes?