PSA: Ladies, just because that man doesn't want you doesn't automatically mean something is wrong with you!
Remember: A peasant's appraiser is man. A Queen's appraiser is the Creator of man, God.
Man's rejection is God's protection. Sometimes God will blind your beauty & worth to a peasant to spare you from settling with someone who is undeserving. With that being said, always remain confident in WHO you are & WHOSE you are!
In addition to the things I discussed in the video, the next time a man wants to act up, act funny, or fall back from you randomly...
- Let Him. If he wants to stop calling/texting, let him. If he wants to stop putting in effort, let him. If he wants to leave, LET HIM! Don't chase after him. Don't call/text him nonstop. Don't beg/plead for him to stay. You are not his mama, disciplinarian, recruiter or teacher. You can't raise a grown man or change one. You don't have to create a PowerPoint presentation to your King to show him your worth--He will recognize it on his own. So in the words of Beyonce, "To the left, To the left..", let him exit stage left. :-)
- Stay True to Who You Are. Don't lower your standards to accommodate him or try to change who you are in attempt to get his attention. You are enough! You're not too little or too much--you are just enough! And guess what!? You'll still be enough after him. Confidence is the most attractive thing a woman can have and happiness is her best revenge. Don't get depressed. Don't gain 10 pounds from eating away your sorrows. Instead, pour all of that disappointment, sadness, and hurt energy into yourself. One monkey doesn't stop the show. Continue to date good, quality men--don't become Bitter Betty! Get a "Revenge Body"! Pursue your dreams! Excel in your career! Keep focusing on your relationship with Christ! Choose Happiness, Queen! This is YOUR life--stop letting peasants have power over it and you!
- Realize there's more fish in the sea. There's almost 3 billion men on a planet. Your world does not end because one did not work out. Take the situation as a lesson learned and remain optimistic about your future. God is forever faith & He will bless you with an amazing King, on His time. (Keyword Ladies: His time; not yours! #Patience)
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