How to Heal from an Unexpected Breakup Without Closure

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In April, I recorded a video on how to heal from an unexpected breakup without closure because at that time, I was getting a lot of messages from different women struggling with healing from breakups, closure and letting go. I may be 6 months late publishing the video, but I’m trusting and believing this will still help people who are struggling in this area. I myself have experienced ghosting, unexpected breakups with someone I thought I would marry, heartbreak, situationships etc..YOU NAME IT. Since I have been able to successfully overcome & heal from all of those painful seasons, I wanted to make a video to help someone who was struggling in that season.

In the video below, I share my unexpected, closure-less breakup story + give you 7 practical steps toward healing. Always remember: you are NEVER alone, this is just a SEASON and there is victory, power, real love & greater things on the other side of your heartbreak! I'm a living testimony to God's healing, restoration & elevation! Keep the faith!

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Seize the Season

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We are in the midst of a pandemic and so many of our lives have been turned upside down. Businesses are shut down, layoffs are happening left and right, church’s worship experiences are online only, grocery stores are packed, social gatherings of 10+ people are banned, and unfortunately people all across the globe are testing positive for (and some are dying from) the covid-19 virus.

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Overcoming the Struggle to Surrender

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My biggest struggle in my walk with God has come down to this one word: surrender. I have a strong, type A personality. I’m ambitious, outspoken, and love to “make” things happen. But the downside to this strong dynamic personality of mine is my struggle to relinquish control. I like to do what I want, when I want and how I want.

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An Open Letter to the Guy I Wanted

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Everyone sees me, except you.  Everyone sees our potential, except you.  Everyone sees the sincerity of my heart, except you.  Till this day I'll never know why you were blinded to a love so obvious, consistent and pure.  Here you had a woman and close friend who's always had your back and would've done anything for you.  My loyalty had no expiration and my support was unwavering.  But despite me fitting the perfect mold of your ideal woman, you still didn't give us a real chance.

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Bye Ugly!!! Hello Beautiful..

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Can I start this post by being flat out honest with you?  There have been days where I thought I was ugly.  I picked my face apart because I disliked some of my facial features—my nose looked weird sometimes and my bottom lip is slightly bigger than the top.  One eye seems more open than the other when I take pictures. My ears look like elves. I was so nitpicky.  I’ve even compared myself to other women, more so to admire them and belittle myself. “Her abs are perfect...  Her butt looks better than mine… Her nose is perfectly contoured.  Her hair texture looks prettier than mine…  Her skin is so smooth and flawless…”

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