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The Power in Telling a Man 'NO'

August 16, 2016 by Miss T.N. King in 'Sincerely KING' Blog, Uncategorized

"NO" is one of the most powerful, yet underused words in the dictionary.  Perhaps you were once like me, a "yes woman".  You go out your way to make others happy; you're overly accommodating.  Sometimes you find yourself biting off more than you can chew.  You try to please everyone, even at the risk of inconveniencing yourself.  You prove your loyalty and support by always being there and saying "yes".   You rarely say NO and the few times you say it, it would always be followed by the word "but".  "No, BUT...*insert another way to overextend yourself*."

I don't know about you, but it seemed like the more I said "yes", the more I was taken for granted.  I turned into a doormat.  I felt powerless and unappreciated.  I went from being the priority to the option.  I was served grade A shit on a silver platter and expected to eat it (unfortunately, some days I did).  And like a dusty pair of flared jeans from '07, I was just hanging in the closet waiting for him to put me on.  Eventually I grew courage and developed the strength to say NO--sometimes HELL NO if I was really fed up.  Then something magical happened: I was able to reclaim my power.

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August 16, 2016 /Miss T.N. King
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What to Do When Your Dreams Reject You

May 13, 2016 by Miss T.N. King in 'Sincerely KING' Blog, Uncategorized

For those who follow me on social media know that I recently accepted a new job at my dream company and will be relocating to my dream city, NYC.  However, you didn't know that before these dreams were manifested, I was rejected not once but twice from my dream company.  My faith in God was constantly tested.  I almost gave up on everything.  Oh, and I went to bed numerous times feeling confused, disappointed, and frustrated.  I've been working in my career field for more than a year and a half.  I didn't know that climbing up the totem pole would be a rigorous journey.  Society makes it seem like once your foot is finally in the door (aka once you finally get a job), you can smoothly sail to the top.  That's a lie.  Truth is, the struggle never ends even after you get a job.  In this post, I want to be very transparent about my rocky journey and how I still became victorious after experiencing rejection from my dreams.  This is my story. I remember it like it was yesterday when they flew me out for my first interview.  Everything felt so right.  The people, the culture, the city--I knew in my heart this company was for me.  In fact, in my personal journal I declared that this year I would gain employment with this specific company, relocate to NYC, and triple my compensation.

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May 13, 2016 /Miss T.N. King
advancement, advice, career, corporate, dreams, entrepreneurs, faith, job, jobs, kings, life, men, miss t-n- king, nyc, opportunities, pursue, queendom, queens, rejected, rejection, struggles, trust, women, work
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Sex & Situationships

February 23, 2016 by Miss T.N. King in 'Sincerely KING' Blog, Uncategorized

Fighting sexual temptation is not easy at all.  I've been doing it for almost 4 years.  Though it's been a challenge and struggle at times, it's been a huge blessing for me.  I can't think of a man that I regret not having sex with.  When I look back on all the men I've dated these past few years, I don't think "Geez!  I should've had sex with him.  I made a huge mistake not giving him my body & making him 'another number'!"   At the end of the day, when the "honeymoon phase" was over, I was able to see their true colors loud and clear.  Withholding sex gave me better judgement and as a result it was easier for me to walk away from peasants.  Now please don't get it twisted.  I'm human--I get urges & have desires.

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February 23, 2016 /Miss T.N. King
advice, celibacy, dating, giving it up, lifestyle, love, men, relationships, sex, situationships, waiting, women
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PSA: Stop Forcing Relationships & Chasing Men

January 04, 2016 by Miss T.N. King in 'Sincerely KING' Blog, Uncategorized

Can't get over that man who seemed "so perfect" for you?  Are you too busy trying to re-open doors that God already closed?  Do you find yourself pursuing him and putting in too much effort?  Do you struggle with letting go and going separate ways with someone you cared about?

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January 04, 2016 /Miss T.N. King
chasing men, forcing relationships, letting go, love, men, moving on, pursuing him, putting in too much effort, relationships, side chicks, trying to make it work, women
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